Do-it-Yourself Memorial
Ritual Kit for Animal Loss

Hello.

I am so glad you found us. Animal loss breaks our hearts. And while I have yet to find a magic wand to conjure the pain away, I do have some ideas for honoring lost lives and managing the emotions that arise when we lose an animal we love—whether from death, divorce, disaster, extinction, or because a pet does not return home one day. And whether your loss was yesterday, or years ago.
 
A growing body of scientific research shows that grief after losing an animal can significantly impact our lives. One study revealed 93% of humans reported a disruption in their life such as trouble sleeping or loss of appetite. Over 50% reduced their social activities, and 45% had job-related difficulties. Yet, even with stacks of research available, how seriously people respond to our pain can vary.  
 
So, let me be clear. I believe you. I get you. No, it’s not silly to still talk to a beloved dog, cat, or other creature. Nor is there anything wrong with wanting to keep alive the memory of your relationship with them. What you are experiencing is real. And it is valid. I am so sorry for your loss. And I hope we can help.
 

Our DIY Ritual Kit for Animal Loss includes Earth, Water, Fire, and Air ritual materials. Scroll down for instructions for each ritual. Feel free to adapt and be creative. Do the activities alone, with your family,  or invite some friends over to help. Then, repeat as often as helpful.

May the memory of your loved one be an enduring blessing,
Sarah Bowen